Monday, July 22, 2013

My Brother


I just received a phone call (July 22, 2013) telling me my second oldest brother had breathed his last breath on this earth. His pain has ended and he went to sleep to awaken for us no more. It hurts my heart, but at 90 years of age he had lived a full life. Lester, we will all miss you.

He was a troubled youth who gave my parents fits as well as the school teachers and school truant officer. He escaped the truant officer by joining the California Conservation Corp, working on trails in Sequoia National Park.  All his minor illicit activity was put to rest years ago when he moved to Santa Cruz, California to get away from the environment. Prior to that he served in the US Army and attained the rank of tech sergeant. He served the end of WWII in the Pacific and went to Korea for the remainder of his service.

During other Mother’s memorial service in 1973 he told my pastor that he was the black sheep of the family. But truly through the years his heart was transformed and he became tender toward the things of God. Religion was not his thing, but he understood relationship.

He fathered four boys and finally a daughter. His wife tolerated his behavior for over 60 years. She has taken his passing extremely hard. Our prayers go out to her.

He was the “White Lady” of Ocean Drive who thrilled the youth with his antics at the abandoned building on Ocean Street extension, just a short distance from the house. He drove the gang of kids up and down Beach Street in the “jeep boat” to the thrill of many. I was not part of these episodes but his boys and their cousins and friends were the experienced ones.

Gasoline wars were at their height in the 1950’s when he operated the Regal Station on Ocean Street. I remember the price at one time being as low as 25.9 cents a gallon. After selling the station he worked in construction until retiring.

He was a Waggonner. That ascribes to him the right to be stubborn and opinionated.

The last few years of his life were lived in much pain. He had adult onset of diabetes resulting in loss of his toes on one foot. He fell many times resulting in a broken hip. The last few months were the hardest. He was pretty much bedridden. Eventually his will to live diminished and God took him. All of his children got to be with Him on his last day along with some nieces and nephews.

He joins his two sisters and another brother along with mom and dad. Now there are two of us siblings remaining, ironically the oldest, aged 92 and the youngest, aged 67.
RIP, Les.

Friday, July 12, 2013

DRAMA


Well, I’ve just come through an astounding bit of drama. It seems as though social media opened a Pandora’s box of mess.

A family member came unglued over a social media post that was non controversial and responded in a defensive manner as though they had all the facts.  I in turn commented in defense of that commentator and caught more flak than a low flying B-25 over enemy territory.

After some short exchange I was quickly unfriended from the media source without explanation. I sent a private message via another media method and was bluntly told to leave them alone; so much for family and Christian love.  They told me they didn’t want my drama. Wow! What a pot!

The conclusion I draw from the whole scenario is, who cares for my input, so best just express it when I can and let the chips fall where they may.  I am entitled to my opinion and if it isn’t accepted then that becomes their problem. I can take the heat, but will defend my right to expression my opinion.
I have reserved myself and expressions far too long.  You can blame it on age, but I rather think I am wising up to those who think they know it all and are disrespectful of the human being I am. Maybe they will find peace with others of liberal mindedness and lack of respect. Birds of a feather flock together.